LIVE IN OR MARRIAGE- WHICH ONE IS BETTER....



Well another hot topic posted on Indispire and that too in  a row......cool haan...

 so topic is live in or marriage- which one is better.....i would say neither.....if you are living in with the wrong girl....you will just beat your head on the walls...and till the time, you are living with her..the only advantage you will have is that you can have sex with her...but you will regret that time spend with her...

 if you get married to a wrong girl...then its a disaster....better commit suicide than dragging your life...or else divorce her....the wrong girl will kill you with her constant nagging...with her frequent complains and tantrums she will destroy the peace in your life....

 so if you are hooked up with the wrong girl...then i would say a live in relationship is better than marriage.....at least getting rid of her would be much easier....ha ha ha ha..after you dump her there is high risk involved that she may charge you of raping her...of betraying her..so you better don't have sex with her...i know it would be tough to resist that temptation..but ask your heart what is more important....to have sex and fuck your life or resist sex and live your life with dignity....and you will get the answer

 From the holy bible:

 A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones( Proverbs 12:4)

 So now lets talk about live in or marriage with the right girl......which one is better...i would say of course marriage is better.....if you love the girl....marry her.....Make her yours as soon as possible...because there is no need of a live in relationship here....when you are sure about a person...when you are sure..that yes, she is the girl.....there is no confusion...there are no complications....Marry her and the whole life would be a Honeymoon ride.......even if the society objects...don't give a fuck....if your parents object, put all your efforts to convince them...still they don't agree....no problem....still marry her...when your parents will see you happy....eventually they would be happy too....


From the holy bible,

 Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.(PROVERBS 19:14)

 So i would conclude by saying...Live in or marriage is not important..the person with whom you are sharing this intimate relation is what matters...if the person is good..the relation is good...its blissful..if the person is bad...then God save you...Ha ha ha ha ha....

Comments

  1. Datta Ghosh20 June 2014 at 03:41

    "So i would conclude by saying...Live in or marriage is not important..the person with whom you are sharing this intimate relation is what matters...if the person is good..the relation is good...its blissful.." My favourite lines, a balanced approach, an objective approach, biblical references, good post, hats off to you.

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    1. Issac Writes20 June 2014 at 04:41

      thank you so much...for this wonderful comment of urs...:-)

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  2. Unknown20 June 2014 at 04:13

    That's true my friend, the only thing matters is the person with whom you have the relationship with. Great post. :)

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  3. Anmol Rawat20 June 2014 at 13:45

    You know that you write in a disgraceful manner right?

    I agree with your view but the way you have mentioned some things is quite conspiratorial and patriarchal:

    "the only advantage you will have is that you can have sex with her"
    "after you dump her there is high risk involved that she may charge you of raping her"
    "to have sex and fuck your life or resist sex and live your life with dignity"

    why are you so possessed by the notion of sexual intimacy? Is that all that is about Living-In? I mentioned in my blog that this is why I don't support Live-In bluntly as people do consider it do be just Sleeping-In. You are actually supporting my point.

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    1. Issac Writes21 June 2014 at 03:52

      Well i write disgraceful things in a disgraceful manner with a touch of sarcasm.....:-D i depict beautiful things in a beautiful manner too....read my poems and you will know..:-P and the para ur talking about... i have also added that better dont have sex if she is the wrong one....if u think for a while...u will understand.....when i write...i write it with different thoughts...how u take it is ur thought process....its about how u look at things....:-)

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    2. Issac Writes21 June 2014 at 03:56

      and well at times living in is just about sharing beds...just sleeping in....i support ur point....but not always.....different people..different cases....for me people are important....i stress on people....bad people bad relations...good people...great relations...

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  4. Tomichan Matheikal21 June 2014 at 00:41

    Marriage or live-in, what matters is the relationship. What use is marriage if it is a living hell? What matters if two people live together without the social contract called marriage but are happy?

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