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THE IDEAL MARRIAGE

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As i continue to grow up, every moment, each hour, every day, each month and  every year, i have seen my perception of marriages changing from a unification of two souls to mere business transactions. Ok he is rich, perfect, marry him, he can feed me for the rest of my lives. Financial security is important but is it so important ?. I have seen relatives boasting about the rich amount of dowry they get, about the quantity of gold their daughter in law has brought from her house. Even i used to think, cool man, get married and be rich, life is set. You grow mature with age though and realize that life is just not about materialistic comforts, its sometimes much more than that, even the richest men and women have lived their life in misery and loneliness. Marriage has bought misery to many rather than happiness and the lives of many have been screwed. Companionship for name sake and loneliness for the rest of your lives along with a dose of mental abuse and sometimes physical as well. A…

My Realization

I quit my job. Ran out of savings. Then took a low-paying job as a copywriter. I bootstrapped down and moved into my Dad’s tiny apartment. Without much space, we slept in the same room. During this time, I learned something beautiful. Success and happiness parallel how much value we create for others. Not how many books we read, podcasts we listen to, or YouTube videos we watch. The problem: I had no skills. I had no money. With few options, I began writing for many hours every day. To focus, I stopped… -Talking to friends who didn’t help me create value. -Opening my Facebook News Feed. -Paying attention to politics. -Watching T.V. and Netflix. -Going out to eat. First, I wrote on my blog. As I became a better writer, I contributed to publications. People began to recognize and respect my ability to create value. I left my low-pay copy
writing job to work for a Facebook software company and moved out of my Dad’s apartment. I then took a job as the VP of marketing for…

The Mother and the daughter

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Once upon a time lived a girl with her parents, As she grew up, she fell in love with a man and eloped away with him. Her parents disowned her as she brought shame to her family. She started her new life with her hubby and lived happily, she became pregnant and bore a girl child. Her husband dumped her and left for he never wished to be faithful with her as he was done with her. He had enjoyed her to the fullest and now that it was time to take up responsibilities, he ran away.
At the other end her parents were living a distraught life. Her father died after two years since the day she left. Her mother after living alone for a year thought of her daughter and thought of living the rest of her life with her. After continuous searching for months, she found her in the slums of a big metropolitan city, living with her few months old daughter. Her daughter was glad to meet her and welcomed her. As days went by the mother realized something has gone wrong with her daughter, as during the l…

A BARGAIN FOR LIFE

No more effort is required to aim high in life, to demand
abundance and prosperity, than is required to accept misery and poverty. A
great poet has correctly stated this universal truth through these lines: 
"I bargained with Life for a penny, 
And Life would pay no more, 
However I begged at evening 
When I counted my scanty store. .
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"For Life is a.just employer,
He gives you what you ask, 
But once you have set the wages, 
Why, you must bear the task. 
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"I worked for a menial's hire,
Only to learn, dismayed, 
That any wage I had asked of Life, 
Life would have willingly paid."

TLC - Tender Loving Care

Behind every person you meet, there could be a bleeding heart. Many of those hearts are looking for a shoulder to cry on, and a hand to wipe their tears. They are not looking for handouts. they are NOT looking for sympathy. They just want some to listen to their stories, without interrupting or making JUDGEMENTS. What they badly need is TLC --- Tender Loving Care. It is very easy to judge, without knowing what is behind the tears we just witnessed. There are people out there who for one reason or the other, are sad, alone, and spend many nights in their homes, behind locked doors, and in need of comfort. Once again, they are NOT looking for FREE STUFF.... they just need someone to say...... something like ..." Please do not cry....God will take care of U."

Someday the Flirting would go real and you shall know, its Love

She is poetic, so majestic with her words and every time I talk to her, the conversation always gets romantically intellectual.
A beautiful soul she is, she does know how to express the beautiful mess that keeps going within her.
She is a natural flirt and during one of our conversations,
She asked me, I flirt good, don’t I but I am still single, why so. Ain’t this a grave injustice to me.
I said, yes correct what you say but there is a twist.
She said, yes what.
I said, its great, you are still single, you haven’t been into casual relationships, they are more harmful than beneficial to you.
She said, well that’s true.
I then said, but there is another twist I said.
She said, and what’s that.
There was curiosity in her tone.
I said, one day shall come a guy, whose flirts would be filled with true feelings, his words would be heavy weighing with true emotions.
Like those heavy clouds during monsoons and rains would happen.
And you both would be wet.

My Half Girlfriend

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I was there sitting at her house, talking to her.  We were good friends, very good friends, and just to confirm that we are friends and not lovers, let me tell you two things, so that you have no doubt about our relation :-
1)She was standing at her gate waiting for me, wearing a t-shirt and pajama and no makeup. And above that she was wearing a weird sweater. If I had been her boyfriend, she would have wore something sexy isn’t it.
2)Her hairs were shabby, even though she had made a pony and looking at her, I could make out, she hadn’t taken a shower . I also thought, shit why did I take a bath in this cold weather. If she had been my girlfriend, at least she should have cared to take a shower.
Ok, coming back to the story, so she was sweet, simple and cute. Her smile was her best asset that reflected her innocence, I liked her. even though she was a bit weird, did things that were beyond my understandings but she was a good human being and cared for people around her. couple of days ag…

THE DOG WHO SPOKE HIS HEART OUT

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In the night as I was sprawling back home, I met a dog. I asked him, hey dude, chilling out today. The dog replied, what it has to do with you, go home. I asked, this days, in the night hours, you don’t roam around in our neighborhood. Don’t you bark this days, every time you see a man with questionable intentions, someone who is suspicious in his actions, don’t you know the cases of stealth and robbery have increased in our neighborhood. People will question your credibility now buddy, the image of dogs is at stake. Dog whispered within, look at this piece of ass, doesn’t do his work properly and advising others to be aware of their responsibilities. The dog said, you seem to be so full of knowledge and your tongue is not a bit tired shooting all those hypocritic words of wisdom. Seven days ago, I had come to your house, I saw your wife smiling outside the house. I felt happy looking happy at her and thought to myself, today I will surely get some bread to eat. Thirty minutes passed …